I'm 7 weeks pregnant and not one bit excited. I hate how being pregnant makes me feel, how it makes me look. I work with children as a nanny and love what I do. Therefore knowing exactly what we have got ourselves in for. People say it will be different when its your own but I really don't believe them. Please don't think im a shitty person for asking this question but am I going to regret this?
My husband also is unsure though I think deep down he likes the idea. He is a very busy person always of on work trips here and there. I don't want to have to do this on my own and god forbid there is something wrong with it. I really don't think I could handle it. We have no family close by to help out. So would have to rely on day care and nannies etc.
I'm 35 and tought that I really wanted this but as time has gone on my thoughts have really changed. I don't want to let anyone down family husband etc as there super excited but I really don't think my hearts in this and if I did go ahead and do it I may be doing it for the wrong reasons.
Please help me!!!
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Rightdecision1 · 16/07/2013 03:40
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