I gave birth one week ago today. Bit of a traumatic birth story, well I say traumatic that's probably the wrong word, I had a third degree tear caused I think by DD having her hands on either side of her face as she was coming out. Had her at 10:40pm the tear was not sewn up until 11am the following day, almost had to go and be put on a drip as the placenta took a couple of hours to come out but it came out just as they tried it for the last time.
Was in hospital 4 days altogether and was getting teary whilst I was in there and midwives who I mentioned it to put it down to the baby blues.
We came out and stayed at DP's parents till last night as i wanted to come home, even though the day before we had her we moved house, (short notice council offered us 2 bed property through bidding system and me being stupidly foolish accepted it, and am now seriously regretting it.) So its in basic form, half stuff is still packed away etc
Then there is my feelings, I have been crying alot, felt like I cannot deal with anything, had horrible thoughts about not wanting my own child! (How can I even think that) just generally feeling like I cannot cope, and regretting having a baby when I get really sad, and yet when she is quiet and calm, and I am, I'm fine, but the negative feelings keep coming back.
I feel I should stress that I do NOT feel as though i will harm myself or her, but I am worried that I will slip into a complete depression and not bond properly with my own daughter, I initially tried to breastfeed her but due to a multitude of issues there she is now on formula.
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