April 2013 part six...what does the third trimester have in store?(988 Posts)
I'm 24 weeks on Sunday due 27th April. This my 2nd I have a 3 year old daughter and expecting another girl. Anyone else due 27th
31 weeks is a bit late joining in, still, it would be nice to have the company of you ladies. My due date is 30 April, anyone around that time? Booked into Kingston Hospital, SW London.
Just marking my place...
We've been away in the yorkshire dales for half term week, amazing holiday I feel so refreshed! We were really in the middle of nowhere was nice to have a break from the world for a week but because I haven't been online I can see there's lots to catch up on over the weekend!!!!!!
Hope you all had a good half term
rabbitfrommars welcome! Nice to "meet" you, the more the merrier
Add yourself to the stats thread and jump right in!
Hi dysgu. I've got GD aswell. How are you getting on? I'm finding it a bit all-consuming at the moment. I can't tolerate any carbs.Sends my readings off the chart. I've been on insulin for two weeks. Not really helping as they just keep on increasing it every other day. Waiting for my levels to come down. Almost frightened to eat now. We have a growth scan in the AM. and another in two weeks. Definitely being induced at 38w - beginning of April.
Love the new thread title toobreathless my dn Alex was born at 29 weeks. He's now a strapping seven year old. I was born at 27 weeks and I'm fine too - even though it was all those years ago! I always take a special interest in mamas posts of course.
Thanks guys! I think you are right. He clearly finds it hard to think about the baby as a real person in the way I do.
We have just come back from our NCT class. It was excellent and DH was really great. I think it's going to work well for us
And if he starts behaving stupidly again I am sure I can find a shovel
Glad your scan went fine jacqueline I didn't end up seeing my bump at today's growth scan and consultant meeting as everything is going so fine
TBH was a bit sad at not getting to see bump - especially as I had DD1 with me and she would have loved it - but then again, if everything is going so well....
My diabetes is all fine, numbers fine and diet fine so they don't need to see me in two weeks (consultant told me I am 'intelligent' enough to get in touch if my numbers change otherwise they don't need to waste my time sitting in more waiting rooms!
Next consultant said everything looking so fine, baby measuring exactly right for 31 weeks that, if I get past 32 weeks (DD1 arrival) and 35 weeks (DD2 arrival) and things keep going as well as they are now, then they would not need to induce me until 41 weeks instead of 37. Of course, she also said I am unlikely to still be carrying this baby at 37 weeks, let alone 41!
So I have next consultant appointment in 4 weeks - at which time I will be more pregnant than I have ever been.
empress I too thought that your DH would change once it all becomes real and he is holding the baby in his arms. I think it is hard for men - even if they come to the scans, hear the heart beat and see the bump and feel it move. It doesn't really become real to my DP until he cuts the cord and he is the same with this one (DC3) as he was with the others - interested but not really emotionally involved! He is a fabulous dad though...
P.s. jacqueline - glad scan went well x
empress - what is it with these men at the moment?
I echo everything Jacqueline said- silly man with his head in the sand. Will just say that our NCT classes were brilliant- my dh found them really useful and the fact that everyone was in a couple gave it a 'all in this together' feel. The instructor was great- really friendly and informative- and there were lots of times where we went off as a couple, in different couples or separated off in to men and women. Perhaps it'll give your dh a sense of perspective. Try not to worry
Talking if not groups- th first couple in our group was a bit ahead of us and had their planned c-section today- they've texted to say that all went well. Makes it all feel like its getting very close!
Empress another DP sounding like a twit! Really who suggests not fixing a car seat in prperly I suggest hitting him with a shovel also
In all honesty I would say that this sounds like a classic case of nothing appearing real until the man actually gets to hold the baby in his arms. I suspect the second it all becomes reality he will become the most protective attentive Daddy in the world. If he doesn't then you do have problems!
I had my scan and everything today and apparently the baby weight approximately 4lb 7oz which woulod put him at about 34 weeks (I'm 32 weeks today) and he is head down. All is well and I got given some lovely photos...back in a four weeks for my final scan. Hurrah!
32 weeks today.
Dont know quite what advice I am seeking here maybe I just need to rant a bit.
I am really worried that DH just isnt taking parenting seriously. We have a car seat that wont fit into his car so he is going on about propping it up on a cushion or pile of books because as long as we strap the baby in tightly it will be fine. I have explained that this is highly dangerous and probably illegal but he just tells me to stop being hysterical. He still hasnt forgiven me for buying a new mattress for the cot (because advice says you can buy a secondhand cot but should really get the mattress new). He called me hysterical then and hasnt really stopped using the word since. I am also frivolous because I bought a baby bath instead of agreeing to wash the baby in the sink. Never mind that it only cost me a tenner!
Weve got our first NCT antenatal class tonight. I was looking forward to it but now I am dreading it. He has made it clear he doesnt really want to go because he says its nothing to do with him as hes not the one giving birth and that its all about feminists trying to force men to get involved in womens things! He can be outspoken at the best of times so I am a bit worried hell be the troublemaker of the group.
What I really hope is that it teaches him some things and acts as a wake-up call but Im not sure it could just alienate him completely.
He is a really lovely and loving person and I think he will make a great dad but at times like this he really worries and annoys me.
Anyway, that is all I wanted to say. I guess its just another hassle I could do without at the moment, when I need him to be strong and sensible.
Hi Guys, Bit late to the party but thought I'd say hi. In the 30th week and everything seems to be happy and healthy.
wishful we were going to but won't in the end for lots of reasons, but main one is we have bought mini cots that have foam mattresses and you can't use them with foam- only sprung
Just popping in to say 'hello' - really having lovely relaxing break with folks in Devon!
Most people seem over their ailments now which is good- due dates getting closer and closer!
Question: are you getting a baby sensor movement mat thingy for under the mattress?
Am exhausted after spending literally all morning looking working out maternity dates/annual leave dates and maternity pay. Also quite depressed as it really is not much to live off..
Did you know you get paid full for bank holidays during SMP? My work have said they will pay for these as full pay. As will be off May and August this means 3 extra days.
username congrats on the move, must feel like a huge relief, let the nesting commence
payday today, so have stocked up on a pack of 2 nighties from mamasandpapas for the labour and nursing ( 2 for £18 and one is black, so is more likely to survive all the fluids but even if it doesn't then won't have cost the earth, sorry TMI) and a breast pump and more nappies/wipes/cotton wool. That will be it for this month hopefully... DP is getting the new cot/pram/moses basket mattresses, then hopefully nothing big left to get.
I had an argument with my Mum over mattresses, as she said I should just "sponge them clean", but for such relatively little money (I know it is still a good chunk, but small price to pay for peace of mind and a clear conscience) i'd never forgive myself for not doing it. Doubtless there will be many more disagreements about the way we're raising DC1 but the bottom line is, it is for us to make the decisions. of course will listen to all advice with a nod and a smile on my face (
while gritting teeth and counting to 10 inwardly)
faith and sneezy good to know I'm not the only one with baby's head engaging, I have been feeling more pressure on my bladder and tush since Tuesday and baby's bottom seems to be sitting a little lower (seems to like residing just to the right of my navel!) but I know it can be weeks before anything else happens, or it can even come back out again, so it might mean all or nothing. thank you breathless for the reassurance though, MW just said "oh , it can be like that for up to 5 weeks", which sounded fine, until i realised that was still only 36 weeks!
Mind you, it has done some good as DP's face was a picture and he came out the appointment saying we needed to get things sorted at home in case bean makes an early appearance, whereas up until now everything could wait as it was "still months away". i won't let him know that it doesn't really mean anything
magic good to know you can talk this stuff through with OH. if he really is doing it because he believes it will be the best thing for you and the baby then you just need to thank him for trying to look out for you all but then explain just how upset the potential move is making you, and give him some good, non-emotional but rational arguments as to why it makes sense to stay where you are for now. Either that or drop lots of hints why staying is good and moving is bad until he thinks it was his own idea not moving anyway
Finally moved! Everything is still a bit of a mess but getting there! Just hoping/waiting for nesting to kick in and give me some energy. Had a cold during move but aside from braxton hicks I didn't suffer too much
Not going to name check as a bit behind but hope everyone is ok!
* Aufaniae* there are some gym balls on offer in TKMaxx - very cheap - it would be worth a look. I have a sheet of exercises you can do on the ball from my ante natal pilates class which I will try and dig out. There is also a website called spinningbabies which is supposed to be really good for getting them in position!
Mama yesterday I went to look around Boots baby event and they have clothes for tiny babies on a 2 for 1 offer. They are from 3.5lbs up and some of them were very cute. Might be worth seeing if anyone can have a look for you!
aufaniae this baby is b2b too. I'm avoiding sitting on the sofa and I'm instead sitting on a hard dining chair or my birthing ball. MW also suggested leaning forward over the ball or getting on hands and knees.
DD was b2b and so I'm doing everything I can to avoid that this time!
Soccer sport do birthing balls cheap and TKMaxx, they are just called yoga balls there
Or just see if anyone you know has an exercise ball gathering dust? I reckon lots of people probably do!
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