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He CAN'T back out now, surely

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RuuthAaaghhh Sun 22-Feb-15 20:31:08

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Arsenic Sun 22-Feb-15 20:33:14

I hate the bloody Archers. It is the Archers?

kewtogetin Sun 22-Feb-15 20:34:52

He's behaved appallingly to go running to his mother before discussing how he's feeling with you, but no, you can't force him to move if he doesn't want to. It sounds like he's been putting off telling you for a while but as the move is literally about to happen he's spilled the beans.
It's shit but I don't think there is anything you can do bar moving by yourself.

laughingmyarseoff Sun 22-Feb-15 20:36:13

YANBU at all OP, he's a selfish selfish man, you've made an agreement and a lot of promises and work. If I was you or his sibling I'd be fuming. Fuck it I'd sell up and leave him to live with mummy while you move on.

He can't shut down and make the rules, he's not the king of you all.

MumToFourCats Sun 22-Feb-15 20:36:51

The archers.

TwoAndTwoEqualsChaos Sun 22-Feb-15 20:37:10

Blow, I forgot to listen tonight ...

deadduck Sun 22-Feb-15 20:37:34

YANBU for wanting to go. Of course you should move. Better still, LTB to fend for himself with his mother.
YABU for not having seen the writing on the wall for MONTHS. I have.

Clodia Sun 22-Feb-15 20:37:52

YDNBU. LTB.

The divorce settlement should be enough for you to buy a small farm in Prudoe near your mother. Please take your daughter with you.

moggiek Sun 22-Feb-15 20:38:42

smile

Arsenic Sun 22-Feb-15 20:39:31

I hope she goes on her own and takes her voice with her.

ARealPipperoo Sun 22-Feb-15 20:40:12

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UsedToBeAPaxmanFan Sun 22-Feb-15 20:41:05

Sounds like a real baby, wouldn't be surprised if you find him playing with a toy farm next.

goldface Sun 22-Feb-15 20:41:38

Deadduck beat me to it - YABU to have missed the signs. Damn that MIL of yours and her endless baking.

NorksAreMessy Sun 22-Feb-15 20:42:38

Oooooooooooo noooooooooooooooooo

ARealPipperoo Sun 22-Feb-15 20:44:10

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ReallyBadParty Sun 22-Feb-15 20:45:18

You could always shag the dairyman to get back at him?

Moodykat Sun 22-Feb-15 20:46:00

I don't get why your mother can't move to Ambridge? But I agree with pp, this has been coming a while!

ARealPipperoo Sun 22-Feb-15 20:47:38

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Bowlersarm Sun 22-Feb-15 20:47:41

Oh hooray, so pleased your Dh has seen sense (after dragging it out for so long.....)

MuddhaOfSuburbia Sun 22-Feb-15 20:49:46

YANBU

this family sounds toxic

LTB

Bakeoffcake Sun 22-Feb-15 20:53:10

I personally think it was a rubbish idea that you decided to go in the first place.

Also I'd like to ask mother to mother, didn't you notice your Dd has been replaced with someone else?confused

ARealPipperoo Sun 22-Feb-15 20:53:38

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rembrandtsrockchick Sun 22-Feb-15 20:54:17

Oh my love...how absolutely awful for you. Please don't give in to him, he is being a selfish arse and is not thinking about you at all. You have given him the best years of your life and this is the thanks you get.

I think the best thing you can do is to divorce the bastard, move up to be with your lovely mother and forget him and his manipulative, mean spirited ma.

When you go make yourself a promise that you will never come back, will cut off all contact and never be seen or heard in the village again.

AND...please take your knowall, sanctimonious daughter with you too.

Bakeoffcake Sun 22-Feb-15 20:54:34

You also need to prepare for the fact that the rest of the family, plus a few others in the village, are going to HATE you for not going as they won't get their money.

soontobemumofthree Sun 22-Feb-15 20:57:14

No surely hearing voices and rummaging in a bin is not how you make a decisions which massively affect all your family!!

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