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If your friend wanted to call their daughter Lily

(133 Posts)
Vagaceratops Tue 08-Jan-13 22:16:47

(totally outing myself here but ho hum)

And they thought that the spelling Lille was really nice, would you point out that that is a place in France and the pronunciation was different?

Or would you leave it and let them find out on their own?

nokidshere Tue 08-Jan-13 22:17:32

I'd definately point it out...

MrsTerryPratchett Tue 08-Jan-13 22:18:37

Deffo point it out. Lillie fine (but wrong) Lille place in France (and wrong).

BluddyNora Tue 08-Jan-13 22:18:43

I'd point it out, just in a 'oh, like that place in France?' Kinda way, not a 'but that's a place in France!' Kinda way!

WaspFactory Tue 08-Jan-13 22:18:49

They must mean 'Lillie', surely?

TravelinColour Tue 08-Jan-13 22:19:06

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Euphemia Tue 08-Jan-13 22:19:57

Or Lillé? grin

BelleDameSansMerci Tue 08-Jan-13 22:20:12

Yes, definitely tell them!

mum382013 Tue 08-Jan-13 22:21:47

could be worse they may want to call her after that other famous french place breast!

Vagaceratops Tue 08-Jan-13 22:22:24

grin at Eurostar leaflet.

I thought she meant Lillie until today, when she told me that that was how they were going to spell it.

I would just hate for her to get upset that everyone is calling her daughter Leel.

mum382013 Tue 08-Jan-13 22:24:05


TravelinColour Tue 08-Jan-13 22:24:19

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ThisIsMummyPig Tue 08-Jan-13 22:24:27

I think you need to point out that some ignorant people may be inclined to get it wrong.....

CailinDana Tue 08-Jan-13 22:25:18

Oh dear. Awkward. I'd be so tempted to say something but it would be difficult as hell. Cringe.

Amytheflag Tue 08-Jan-13 22:26:37

Eek! I would want to say something just in case they don't know but I don't know how I'd do it!

PureQuintessence Tue 08-Jan-13 22:27:12

Is it a family of midgets? Lille means small in Norwegian.

IceAndSliceOfBrainsPlease Tue 08-Jan-13 22:31:15

Pure - so Lillehammer means 'Little hammer'? So cute!

PureQuintessence Tue 08-Jan-13 22:32:41

Yes grin It does not refer to a flower head, or a hammer shaped like a lily.

oldraver Tue 08-Jan-13 22:33:01

I think you need to point out that some ignorant people may be inclined to get it wrong

Why would they be ignorant ? If you saw the name written down and hadn't heard the parents pronunciation it would be perfectly understandable to pronounce it as the town and think maybe they were following the trend for place names

PureQuintessence Tue 08-Jan-13 22:33:53

It is a little bit like the song "Nice in Nice"

VBisme Tue 08-Jan-13 22:34:37

Yes, tell them.

ThisIsMummyPig Tue 08-Jan-13 22:36:04

Sorry Oldraver - it was meant to be tongue in cheek - I would pronounce it Lille too.

shellyf Tue 08-Jan-13 22:36:42

Agree with telling them

BreconBeBuggered Tue 08-Jan-13 22:37:18

'My cousin's friend's uncle's dog's brother's dad had the same idea as you and now their DD keeps getting called Leel'? <helpful>

CloudsAndTrees Tue 08-Jan-13 22:40:13

I'd tell them, but only if it was a close friend who I knew wouldn't hate me afterwards.

I think it's ok to do it while little Leel is still in utero. After she is born, if they decide to go ahead with it, you just have to smile and say how lovely it is.

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