DD (13) is due to go to Los Angeles and Las Vegas next month with her grandparents for a family wedding. The rest of us are not going as DC4 will be newborn (or bloody well better be cos I can't cope with these swollen ankles much longer!).
This trip for her is costing us an arm and a leg. The plane ticket was very expensive and I will need to spend at least as much again for her spending money/clothes etc. She will be staying in the the best hotel in Las Vegas and sightseeing in Death Valley etc. She has also just come back from a 5 day European school trip.
Now she is being an absolute COW! She is NOT doing anything serious like getting into trouble with the police, having sex or smoking (so I am wondering I am so bothered about her ) but it is continuous arrogance, disrespect, rudeness, laziness and most importantly, getting into trouble at school. She is on report and has been for the last month, getting detentions and I am getting called up to see the head of year due to her disrupting her classes and being sent out . She has absolutely no respect for the teachers authority. She also makes home life quite unpleasant for us and the DSs as no one can say a word to her about anything. She also lashes out at her brothers. I really don't want a new baby to come into our house with this stress!!
She has been like this since starting secondary school 2 years ago and has been getting worse so it is not something recent and nothing has changed in our lives (except me getting pregnant but she was like this before). At primary school, she was an angel. We have talked to her until we are blue in the face, engaged with the school etc and are now all out of ideas on what to do to change her attitude. She has plenty of attention so I really do not know why she's like this.
After getting another email from her Art teacher (who she seems to enjoy winding up) tonight, I am thinking that banning her from this trip is the only thing to do to make her see we are not going to take this crap from her any longer. AIBU?
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BigMommaOfAlmost4 · 30/06/2010 22:13
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