Not in the slightest. My dh has brown sauce and for extra special 'jazzing up', chilli's. DD has been giving him the evil eye and told him that not everything needs ''jazzing up'. Jazzing up = his words formaking it more interesting/spicey
You certainly have a right to be miffed so you're NBU! I'd be furious! I get cross when MIL puts salt and pepper liberally all over the food I've prepared without even tasting it first. Especially when I normally check seasoning before it gets to the table. We normally put the salt and pepper on the table for manners, but now I 'forget' to put it out!