I have SPD which is now so bad I can barely walk (I can make it around the house with crutches, support belt, painkillers and I am still in pain and can only shuffle slowly).
It got much worse last Thursday, before that I was limited, but could get out for, say a wander around a shopping centre, if I could have a lift there and back and plenty of rest. I hadn't been diagnosed then though, and when the physio did see me, she was alarmed and ordered me to rest or i could do permanent damage.
I have a section booked for monday, so not too long to go, but I know after the section I will have trouble with mobility while I recover, and will also have a newborn to look after. I already have a 2.8 yo DD who has spent most of the past week at the ILs as I just can't look after her in this state.
My mum and Dad are coming to see me for a few days, so i mentioned to DP that I might try and get them to take me and DD to a local supermarket or even the metro centre or something and borrow a wheelchair, just so I can get out, maybe buy a few last minute bits and bobs for the baby and so on. He seems to think I am being stupid, and just causing trouble by not being happy to sit in the house alone for the rest of the week. He says that would be his dream come true, but he has to work.
After DD, I had severe postnatal psychosis, so I am being really careful to look after my mental health this time, and surely sitting on the same settee staring at the walls isn't good for anyone?
Am i being selfish asking my parents to come and take me out places? My mum will have to use some holiday from work to do so, but she offered first. The ILs are lovely, but they are quite a bit older than my parents and i wouldn't be happy asking them to push me about unless it was unavoidable. Also if I seize up (which is happening more and more as the days go on) I'm not sure they could lift me into a position where I could start moving again. My mum is a nurse and my Dad is a builder so they are perfect for this type of thing, also they are my parents so I am not as shy about asking for help.
Plus, I am in pain, I want my mummy and daddy!
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LissyGlitter · 10/11/2009 20:24
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