DH treats me like a servant. We work together (own business) and all day he demands one thing after another. He is a very busy person too, but when he comes home he will just sit and drink beer while I cook, clean up, see to the kids, do laundry etc etc etc. He goes out to work early morning and this morning (quite typically) at 6.30 he puts all the bedroom lights on and starts asking what I have done with all his jeans - he has loads of pairs, can't find any and so on and so on. He seems to think if he's up, ,we all should be (although he will have a nap in the afternoon and crash on the sofa at about 9pm. Now - and this is not the first time - I have found a magazine of 'local horny housewives' etc in your postcode. We had a massive row where he hit me with the "well I have to get it somewhere" line. Our sex life isn't great, but we're both stressed, working too hard and I don't particularly like him when he treats me the way he does. Why should I want to fawn all over him when he's an objectionable bastard? I have threatened him that I won't be here (and neither will the kids) when he gets home tonight, but to be honest, I haven't got anywhere to go because he dragged us hundreds of miles away from family and friends as he pursued his dream. Just want to kill him at the moment.
Sorry for the rant.
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Sourdough · 03/11/2009 12:46
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