I genuinely don't know whether IABU or not, please advise me.Sorry it is long, I am trying to get all the relevant details down in one go.
DSis and her DP have split up very recently, nothing awful on either side, just a general breakdown in communication, irritating each other over every tiny thing. DSis kept on telling DP to F off so then he disappeared for over a week. It turns out that he went to Spain, he says to try and get his head together to work out what he wanted. Understandably DSis was furious as he didn't contact her for the whole time he was away. They have a DS (1) together.
DSis DP and DH are good friends and I get on well with him too, hence we have had his side of things as well as DSis's. Because he was late returning from Spain he has lost his job and has no money. DSis has kicked him out. He is staying at a friend of a friend's house. DH went to see him to take him out for a pint tonight and said that the house is derelict, no carpet, bare plaster walls, the only room that has any furniture is his bedroom, a bare mattress with a duvet cover (no pillows, duvet or sheet). The house has no heating, bath or shower.
DSis in all fairness seems unsure as to whether they might be able to sort things out and he has offered to take her and their DS away for a few days to see if they can sort things out.
AIBU to ask him to stay in our spare room until they at least decide what they are doing?
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bratnav · 02/11/2009 22:24
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