Yes, probably.
On one of the "is it grasping and vile to ask for money when you get married" threads I contributed a mini rantette about a certain couple I know who did that and somehow guilted me into giving far too much money I could not afford to Trailfinders for their super amazing antipodean honeymoon. I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO AFFORD TO GO THERE. So glad you had a nice time. How lovely you look in the pictures. However, it was their honeymoon - a one off - in fact I think the phrase "trip of a lifetime" was used.
HOWEVER now the woman in this couple is sending emails to everyone she knows about raising money to go and do good stuff in Africa. She has a place on an arranged project but needs to raise a fat chunk of sponsorship to get there. At the end of her little spiel about how good it will be for the local community to build all these things they are going to build, she says, "thank you for whatever you can give, it will be the trip of a lifetime."
NOT, you notice, "it will make a huge difference to the lives of everyone who lives there". Basically she has revealed in the last sentence that this is all about her getting to go somewhere exciting and interesting and far away. Again.
So I am feeling really curmudgeonly about this. I am sure - or I hope - this project is genuinely a Very Good Thing. But I am soured to the whole thing by the use of this phrase - for the second time.
I shouldn't penalise the people of this poor village for that. But she is pissing me off.
(This person is not short of a bob or two by the way)
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vezzie · 02/11/2009 12:44
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