Ex-H is a prize , he cancels arrangements to take our 3 kids (dd2,dd3 and ds2) the night before, lies constantly, is insults me and DH ,and has quit his job more times than i can remember so he can avoid the csa. He was abusive and controlling during our time together... getting divorced was the best thing i ever did.(apart from meeting current DH). Once he insisted that we go on holiday and leave our pfb who was month old at the time with his mother. I didnt want to , but was bullied into it... i ended up paying for it too.... the reasons i didnt want to go were i am terrified of flying,im a natural redhead- so burn very easily and i didnt want to leave my dd. He booked Gran Canaria without me there- i had already told him i didnt want to go. when we got there , we discovered to ex-h`s horror that Gran Canaria is teaming with cats! thousands of them.Infact the island is known for its large numbers of wild/ferral cats! Ex-h is very allergic to cats! - his eyes go like jelly just being in the same room as a cat! He had the worst holiday ever ... could hardly leave the hotel room.... and i spent most of it in peace,by the pool .! Karma or what? STILL HAS ME IN STITCHES WHEN I THINK ABOUT IT! and have taken to reminding ex-h about it when he gets insulting/difficult ! am i just being mean?
vinegar i did when we first seperated .... the cat saved me from the twat demanding to be allowed into my house.... kids did love Bello the cat , and would cuddle him goodbye when they went to stay with ex. . sadly Bello is no longer with us, one day he just disapeared ... i had notices in shops and contacted animal shelters and vets incase he was found..he never came home