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LadyEvenstarsCauldren Sat 31-Oct-09 11:33:47

OK, I know I am probably being a BIT unreasonable.

I have a friend who i have been friends with for 13yrs now, she is like family, she is DS2's godmother, we take her on holiday, days out as part of the family etc.

Well after months of unempoyment after being made redundant she has found a new job...excellent news, (this was 3 1/2months ago now). Anyway, since starting this job, she has in many ways ditched me. She will come down and stay the odd weekend as always. BUT today is a fine example...

2 months ago we began planning our halloween party and she has known about it the whole time, been up for it, looking forward to it etc, i even went as far as not inviting someone she doesn't get on with iyswim? so she calls me at 9am today to say she will be down but probably won't be staying for party as she is hung over from the night out she had with work last night.

This is the 8th time she has done this since starting this job. I know I probably sound jealous but its just that whenever i asked her to go out for a drink before starting work she couldn't because her DP would moan about it yet now she is out almost every weekend.

TrillianSlasher Sat 31-Oct-09 11:42:59

Well, you're being very unreasonable to post this without a title, as no-one will be able to click on it...

TrillianSlasher Sat 31-Oct-09 11:44:15

It is rude of her to make herself now unable to go to the party if she influenced the guest list.

It's not unreasonable of her to go out drinking with work people otherwise.

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