Spotted a facebook post by one of our friends saying looking forward to our party Saturday night...
basically they are having a party and have not invited us, we have been friends for about 8 years, and have been invited to all of them as far as I am aware, however over the last year they have changed and made a new friend who in turn got them into a whole new group of friends who I could not have less in common with, in fact we could not be more opposite. Of course they are free to have what friend they like, I am not acting like a 12 year old here, just saying that we have drifted apart some what.
at the last party they had not invited any of their usual friends/family and only invited their new circle of friends, it really shook us as they have a lovely family and the parties were always a lot of fun. however this party was horrible I have never been so uncomfortable, I admit though I could of tried more. However when I spotted we had not been invited I sent a sms and got told that because of how I did not like their new friends they did not think I would want to come.... ok so I would not, but surely that should not be an excuse for not getting a invite. Especially as 2 days ago I got various texts and phone calls when they were having computer problems. so there was ample opportunity for a invite there. Which makes me feel used, as I am obviously good enough to help them with problems...
SO I sent a email stating how even though I would not of enjoyed it, that was no excuse for not inviting us....
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Aeschylus · 30/10/2009 10:36
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