Hi
Am feeling pissed off and upset.
Today foiund out that ds (nearly 11) stole a length of ribbon(?).
Haven't taken it back to the shop as only found out late.
Anyway calmly explained all the reasons why this is wrong.
Asked ds why he had done it as he couldn't really be in need of some ribbon.
He told me that he did it because I never buy him anything "good".
Turns out by good he means games for his xbox etc.
He also said it was because when he asks for things I tell him to wait until his birthday which is next month.
I calmly explained to him that he cannot have everything he wants in life and that it is very important not to get into debt over such things.
Both dh and I work(myself school hours to fit in with the family- I also have 2 other children). I explained that I don't earn a lot etc and ds response was that I should get a better job even if this means working very long hours all the time.
I am uset as I gave up work to look after my family believing this was the best thing to do. Perhaps I would be better thought of if I worked 60 hours a week and shoved him in nursery every school holiday and weekends too.
On top of this he moans if I say he can go to either grandparents house so it seems I can't win.
Just wanted to write it down as I am quite annoyed by his attitude.
Also he isn't complaining about clothes/food or the amount spent on hobbies just it appears expensive games.
Thanks for hearing me out.
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to feel sad that ds thinks I should work more just to buy him more stuff.
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lunamoon2 · 29/10/2009 22:05
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