Ok me and DH are having a difference of opinion here.
I want to know and he doesn't. He seems to think he has the final say but why should he?
dont get me wrong we are not having major arguments but i can see it going that way.
The reasons i want to find out are:
1 we can plan for this baby, have the nursery ready with the right colour, clothes etc.
2 It takes my DH months to finish anything in the house, he started our bathroom 3 yrs ago and its still not finished, kitchen 2 yrs ago etc. I dont want the stress of having to push him to do the nursery when the baby is here.
3 when i have DD i was in labour for a VERY long time 32 hrs with 2 nights of no sleep and quite honestly was in shock when she was born so didnt realy enjoy the fact she was a girl. If that makes sense.
The reason he doesnt want to find out is:
1 He wants a surprise.
I have said he doesnt have to know but i still want to and i wont tell him which i wont, i know many couples who have done this. That i would decorate the nursery he just wouldnt be able to go in there for obvious reasons. I think this is a compromise but he will not agree. AIBU
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ray81 · 25/10/2009 15:51
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