Yesterday DP went out to do some errands and some painting at our house (we are house sitting for my parents for 2 weeks) and said he would be back for 5pm.
I started the dinner and aimed to have it on the table for 530pm, at 520pm I rang DP to find out where he was and he was still at the house so I told him he was taking the piss as usual (he is always turning up late because he is mucking about on the computer)
We have a 3yr old DS and 11 week old boy/girl twins and he knows what a handful they are, I was also going out to play darts and told him that I wanted some time to get ready.
He turned up at 545pm and told me that he didnt need to apologise and that he shouldnt have had to ring to let me know he was going to be late as he was painting OUR house.
He said that I should apologise to HIM because I had got angry with him, I got ready to go out and before I left I decided that even though I didnt feel I was in the wrong I would apologise and sort things out, When I tried to apologise he told me he didnt want to know and refused to talk to me.
I went out and when I came home he went straight to bed and then ignored me this morning too.
He has gone back to our house and when I rang him just he is still insisting that I am in the wrong and not him
So am AIBU to get annoyed with him turning up 45 minutes late and not bothering to let me know?
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readyfornumber2and3 · 20/10/2009 09:59
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