My partner has 2 boys from a previous marriage, aged 11 and 14. He is planning to take the younger son (the older son is not interested) skiing in February half term with a friend of his and his son of the same age, because he promised to do so last year.
The catch is, I can not go with them as I am pregnant with my first child, and they are going 5 weeks before my due date. The promise was made before we knew I was pregnant.
Am I being unreasonable by feeling slightly put out that he would leave me 5 weeks before I am due to give birth.
I have not yet expressed my concerns because I do not want to get in the way of his relationship with his son (who I get on very well with). The concept of a new baby is enough of a transition for him, and he has so far been very accepting. I also am well aware that I am likely to be fine and nothing is likely to happen that far in advance of my due date. However, with it being my first, I am a little nervous.
Please advise/discuss ? am I being unreasonable feeling upset by this, and should I ask my partner not to go?
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Not wanting my partner to go on holiday 5 weeks before my due date?
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chloe2910 · 16/10/2009 16:04
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