Need advice and opinions as I?m going crazy. Have 2 DC and recently moved to a new area, closer to DH?s work and feel v lonely. Have kind of ?moved up? IYSWIM and perhaps gone perhaps out of my natural comfort surroundings.
Have been doing the heading off to playgroups at some local children?s centre and whilst everyone is very nice, it just seems really hard to meet new people. Lots of people go in groups, usually if their DC are the same age as mine then they?ve known each other since babies. I know how this feels as I made great friends when my first was born, and we?re still in touch now, just they now live away from me now.
I recently spoke to a lady who I met on the street who has a DC younger than mine and she was very friendly. I weirdly popped a note through her door and invited her to my home for a coffee. I?m turning into some weirdy stalker!! She did text me and invited me to her house to meet some local mums, who were all nice and friendly but I know I?m coming over waaay to try hard and it?s really freaking me out and I?m getting on my own nerves!!
I can tell I?m not being myself and I?m coming across all a bit weirdo, I gave my number to a few of the mums and they said they would text me their numbers ? and sure enough I haven?t heard back!! I sent a group e-mail to the mums and not heard anything back and now don?t want to pester anymore as I?m starting to annoy myself with how whiny and desperate I?m sounding!!! They are a very tight-knit group and I guess it?s hard to join an established network.
I have some amazing friends so I know that I can be a good mate, but I?d just love to have some local mums to drop in on, text now and again and come round to me so I?m not looking at the same walls or gritting my teeth and putting on my best I'm not looney false smile at various play groups in the region.
My DH is very sweet, but even he his starting to get worn down with me worrying, composing endless text or e-mails so I don?t sound completely odd and writing to complete strangers who I meet in the street. I?m dead lucky I have a great DH, a brilliant mum who I speak on the phone to (she?s not local sadly) and my kids are ace (usually!!). Yet I just feel a bit lonely and tragic. A I being U to want people to like me?
I?ve just re-read this and feel sooo embarrassed but need to get it out of my system! Come and mock the weird one.!
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LonelyLooney · 15/10/2009 21:11
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