I have a friend who's approach to parenting is just ... well ... worrying really.
Her and her husband have a crazy fascination with keeping the house like a show home and nothing else seems to be of importance other than that. I cant emphasise how much of a fascination it is, not just that they have a tidy house but things like
no baby gates allowed
children not allowed toys anywhere other than their bedroom
children not allowed to sit on the expensive leather sofa if they are wearing clothes with buckles and belts etc
Well i visited recently and their 2 year old is still not speaking (not even a single word, he makes very little noise)
Then she told me something that really worried me. Her 2 year old was really ill recently and she had to send for an ambulance because he could hardly breathe. She said
'I could hear him in his cot struggling to breathe, i was so panicked because it took me ages to get to him, trying to untie all the rope around his door handle to get into his room'
I presume the rope is to stop him going out of his bedroom in the night, as they wont have baby gates becuase they damage the walls.
Then she went on to say the hospital wanted her 2yo to stay in for the night but she refused and took him home.
I cant believe that HV or the hospital have not picked up on this, but I am truly worried. The thing is she isnt the kind of person you could approach about the issue. So all I can think of is an anonymous referal the SS.
Would that be unreasonable?
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sillysalley · 14/10/2009 22:42
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