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whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 17:55:16

posted comment's, about a woman posting nearly naked suggestive pics of herself on a website...
"You are hot" "I would like to wake up to see you like that in the morning <slurp>"

PoisonToadstool Sun 11-Oct-09 17:57:05

YANBU, face book?

GypsyMoth Sun 11-Oct-09 17:57:24

i'd be upset at that,not nice or necesaary at all!!

and i'd be wondering what else he had done too....

Wonderstuff Sun 11-Oct-09 17:58:03

shock Was he drunk at the time?

bigchris Sun 11-Oct-09 18:07:31

is it someone he knows shock

HeSaysSheSays Sun 11-Oct-09 18:12:27

Well it does not sound like he has done anything with her does it - ie it would be "I liked waking up with that in the morning" and so on.

I would be cross but mostly about the fact that he was being so disrespectful in general - to me and her!

lal123 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:14:24

wouldn't worry about him being disrespectful to her! What does she expect if she posts nearly nude photos??

InMyLittleHead Sun 11-Oct-09 18:14:26

How old is he, 14? Ew. YANBU. It's insulting to you (and possibly her).

whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:15:27

He had had a drink at the time just after midnight but not enough to be drunk.

We both have seen her on that website but don't know her personally

whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:18:34

We are a little strained since he assaulted me about 2-3 weeks ago.

HeSaysSheSays Sun 11-Oct-09 18:19:49

Lal, I wouldn't be worried about her I would be worried about him being disrespectful to anyone - regardless of how they are dressed or how much they appear to be inviting it.

Saying that you can say anything you like because she is dressed a certain way just takes everyone down to the lowest common denominator. I would want my husband to behave better than that regardless of her actions.

Wonderstuff Sun 11-Oct-09 18:23:52

He recently assulted you, now he's publically perving over other women on the net...
Doesn't sound like he has a great deal of respect for you.

FABIsInTraining Sun 11-Oct-09 18:26:23

Why are you still with him?
He assaulted you. That should be a deal breaker, especially with this extra charming behaviour.

PoisonToadstool Sun 11-Oct-09 18:37:20

hmm

whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:45:00

he put my neck/back out but has paid for one session with my oesteopath

scottishmummy Sun 11-Oct-09 18:45:39

a little strained is verbal argument.not getting assaulted

you seem very detached,more animated about the nudey pictures comments than getting a doing

do you check up on him,his internet activities?

whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:47:36

I love him. sounds pathetic I know

whoever1111 Sun 11-Oct-09 18:49:16

My sister thinks he could kill me in a bout of anger and wants me too leave.

scottishmummy Sun 11-Oct-09 18:49:57

well.you will undoubtedly feel his fists again.maybe next time he will pay the dentist when he knocks your teeth out?

do you have children to they witness domestic abuse

ThisPhantomPlopsPumpkins Sun 11-Oct-09 18:50:20

He paid for your session with the osteopath? Oh that alright then hmm.

Was that the first time he's assaulted you?

AnyFuleKno Sun 11-Oct-09 18:51:07

hmm, as long as he paid for the osteopath, fairs fair hmm

FABIsInTraining Sun 11-Oct-09 18:51:32

It isn 't patheitc to think you love someone.

What is a little bit sad is thinking you don't deserve better.

ThisPhantomPlopsPumpkins Sun 11-Oct-09 18:52:05

0808 2000 247 - Womens Aid helpline, if you want to chat with someone OP.

scottishmummy Sun 11-Oct-09 18:53:54

no amount of anyone else advising or telling you to go will compel you to leave. you will only leave when you feel able to

your posts are very flat and understated.

when you were a wee girl thinking of your partner, did you envisage a bullying and violent man

nope

so what happened?how did you end up here with him?

Wonderstuff Sun 11-Oct-09 19:05:39

Do you think your sister is right?

Do you really want to live like this?

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