We have just had our DD (2 wks, 3 days) and since I got home from hospital (the same day I gave birth) DH has kept on at me to get out and about and to try and get back to "normal". Nothing feels normal and I am finding coping a bit difficult, especially as am breast feeding on demand. DH suggested we could go out for dinner last night with another couple we are friends with, my mum was going to baby sit, but I just felt knackered and didn't feel up to it, especially as we had to go into central london and I couldn't face 40 mins on the tube. So instead I suggested that he go and meet our friend for a few drinks, I asked him not to be late (he has a habit of staying out all night when he gets going), he said fine and off he went. I just got DD to settle and had just got to sleep, when he called me at 11.30pm, pissed as a newt a little worse for wear, saying oh having a lovely time, I am not going to be home early. I was livid and told him he had woken me and it was nice to know where we fit in his priorities. Told him to sleep in the spare room. He started babbling, so I hung up and went back to bed - cue no sleep as so f-ing angry! He turned up at 4.45am, and came into our bed, could hardly stand! I am so angry, I actually don't know what to do to him! I am such a pushover usually and just carry on, but I am really AIBU to tell him to grow the fuck up and stop being such a selfish shit? (sorry about the language)or am I over reacting because I am tired, hormonal and feel like I have been hit by a truck. Any suggestions as to how to kill him?
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Gonnabamumma · 10/10/2009 08:35
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