to think my dad might have found time to at least have a cup of tea with me?

[dilemma456]

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[stonethecrows]

Sorry you're feeling bad - just try and tell yourself that it's his loss....

[dilemma456]

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[mejon]

I know how you feel. FIL lives in Cumbria and we were in South Wales. We found our months later that he'd come down to stay with a friend of his - no more than 30 minutes away from us - and hadn't even thought of telling us he was down/visited. I can't remember if this was before or after he'd met DD for the first time (she was 13 months when that happened) - and he's only seen her once since (now 3.2).

[pranma]

Just a thought-have those who are complaining actually asked the grandad for a visit?For all you know they might be longing for an invite.