I have namechanged cos it's a sensitive subject. DP and I met when we were at college and at the time, he and lots of our friends smoked cannabis. It was really no big deal. I didn't mind then, it was just like having a drink. None of them moved on to hard drugs, none of them ever got into trouble with the police, none of them moved on to dealing, they all got good degrees and most of them went on to really good jobs.
DHP has a great job that he loves in a creative field, but he is now in a senior position which he finds stressful....so occasionally, he smokes a spliff at home. (In the back garden, actually.)
He gets the stuff from an old college friend whom we see very occasionally, so DP smokes only occasionally -- but I am realising that I prefer him when he has smoked
He is not only more relaxed, chattier, more fun, it also reminds me of how he was (we were) back in college days. He is more affectionate towards me, more pleasant company.
I don't want to suggest he smokes more but AIBU to prefer him after he's smoked a spliff?
PS Nothing changes when he has smoked, apart from he's a bit more cheerful. He still gets up the next morning with DC, gets to work on time and performs at work as usual, never drives when stoned, just in case you're wondering if there is a specific downside to his smoking. Not that I can spot
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to prefer DH when he has smoked a spliff?
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Fobwatch · 06/10/2009 13:01
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