Lonnnngggg story, alot of background but to cut it down ...
My friend (call her Jane) lives at home with her parents still with her husband and son.
The husband has alot of problems but is, I feel, a nice guy.
Friend often complains about him and has made him out to be a really bad guy sometimes.
We have an occasion to attend coming up. All of us which we are really oblidged to go to.
Friend was out with me and totally moaning about going, genuinly moaning the whole time that she can't be arsed going, doesn't want to stay over night, doesn't like the person the occasion is being held for ...
fine.
BUT the husbands mother was talking to my DH and saying 'Jane has told me how much she wants to go to this party and stay over but my son is being awkward and not letting them go...'
Now she has made it very clear to me SHE is the one who doesn't want to go, but has got on the phone and told her husbands mother that he is basically being controlling and not wanting to go / stay over.
His mother already worries alot and Im beginning to wonder how much of this is true when she comes to me and says 'DH is being arsey about XYZ... when i talk to him he says 'i have no problem with it.
Would you tell his mother that she told me SHE didn't want to go?
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jumpingjosie · 06/10/2009 11:56
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