The story in short is, that we're getting married abroad, in my home town. My sister kindly took over organising a lot of things for us, which we're eternally grateful for, but she now turned into bridezilla by proxy, and chucking my money out of the window for it.
She went to order flowers, my bouquet and some flower decoration for the car I'll be in. My brother in law is going to drive me, to, ironically, save money as we dont have to hire a fancy car for that. She ordered flower decorations for this car (a usual thing to do in Germany) to the tune of 300 Euro! FFS.
When I queried this, and also asked her for a list of total costs accrued so far (everything was based on trust, I told her several times what my total budget is), I get the reply
"Weddings do cost money, that's a fact, get over it.".
I really don't want to fall out on her, and not on my wedding, but, oh, I could scream.
I've talked to my mum in the mean time who is on my side, but told me also to calm down and not to worry, as she plans to take over some of the costs. Which is very kind. But it's not the point. I just think it's ridiculous to buy flowers for a flipping car, which cost more than e.g. both wedding rings together, or more than my outfit.
Fucking Flowers.
FFS.
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WidowWadman · 05/10/2009 06:57
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