As mentioned in a previous thread my DD2 (12) had her mobile stolen by a boy at school, who handed it to another, who knew that it was stolen. The second boy told the school staff that he then threw the phone to a bunch of other children who smashed it to pieces. This is the latest example of a catalogue of bullying upon DD.
The boy who stole DDs phone and the lad he gave it to have been identified by the school, admitted it and punished - the school says that they were put into the isolation room for the afternoon and that the boys' parents had "issued sanctions".
I would be mortified had my child acted like this and so to me the obvious, proper thing to do would be to offer to replace the phone. The parents (so far at least) haven't. I'm not asking whether I should ask them to do so (though part of me thinks I have every right to, especially as DD relied on that phone as a form of security and means of contacting me because of the bullying) I'm just interested to know what other MN-ers think.
Do you believe as I do that if it was my child who was responsible then offering to replace the phone would be the right thing to do, or would you say that the DC had been punished and that's enough?
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To think that to replace DDs mobile stolen & smashed by someone's DC a decent thing to do?
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valhala · 03/10/2009 23:42
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