DS1 has just started swimming lessons. He's 4 and only just made the age cut-off so he's the youngest in the class. He loves swimming and is quite confident in the water. This week was his 4th lesson
However, he hasn't really settled in the class as I have to watch from a viewing gallery rather than by the poolside - this means he can only see me watching from certain bits of the pool. Until this week he's just been grumbling about it a bit but this week he was really upset - trying to run after me, crying etc.
I managed to get him into the pool and retreated up to the gallery. I actually thought he did quite well considering he was so upset - he stayed in the water and did all the activities tho he was a bit teary and asked the teacher a couple of times how much longer the lesson had to go.
Anyway, when I went down to collect him the teacher came up to me and her first words were 'He's been a complete nightmare!!' I did point out that he was young for the class but she said they didn't use to take them until they were 5 and that was better.
I know her job is to teach swimming and has other children in the class but I'd have thought she might at least work with me a bit to settle him in? I could understand if he'd been like it all the time but this was the first week. Her attitude just seemed to be that I shouldn't bring him. It can't be the first time a child's been upset, can it?
So AIBU to be a bit at her calling my son a complete nightmare (he is my pfb which is why I'm asking) and the fact that she has no strategies to settle him in (I was a teacher before being a SAHM and we usually have a strategy for everything!) or should I give in gracefully and wait til he's older?
Thanks to anyone who's made it this far!
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SpudtheScarecrow · 02/10/2009 13:17
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