I am reading with horror an article in today's Sunday Times entitled ''The bullying of common sense.'' It outlines a case whereby a dinner lady was sacked because she told parents the real details of how theoir daughter was tied up by a group of boys and whipped with a skipping rope. The school had just told the parents that the girl was involved in 'a skipping rope incident.' apparently the dinner lady had breached confidentiality.
I am fuming. It seems to me that many schools are more concerned with maintaining a reputation than sorting out bullying.
I am a school teacher and I am aware that many schools are a hotbed of bullying among both staff and students. I have been on the other side of the fence and was bullied psychologically at a prestigious private school. The teachers did very little to help and in fact the whole set up seemed to foster bullying.
One could of course argue that bullying at school is inevitable. Anyone who has ever read Lord of the Flies will be aware of how cruel kids can be when sorting out the social hedgemony in a group. Some people also drone on about how bullying is a 'right of passage' and makes people stronger.
I on the other hand believe that schools need to face up to the bullying issue and try to foster a supportive environment whereby staff are trained to spot signs of bullying and deal with it effectively.Also students must be encouraged to stand up to bullies and include those children who are isolated from their peers.
I am terrified for dd and the 'happy slap' culture that is so endemic in the UK.
Incidently I am aware that adults can be just as bad in the workplace and I am kind of sick of it.
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poshsinglemum · 27/09/2009 11:48
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