persepho , you are right .it is horrible.... but so is being in a relationship that is one sided in the mans favour.It is horrible that he wont do anything about it and it is horrible being frustrated . It would be more horrible if we who have husbands who have PE , have affairs instead . if it is spoken about then, mabey it will help some couples stay together .
A man having regular sex, or even regular masturbation, shouldn't have a problem with PE. The only time my hubby's ever has problems in that respect is when he's been working away for more than a week or so and is over eager. What happens if you have sex more than once in a day, if he can't last as long as he wants then he could have a medical problem.
Different postions can have a dramatic effect as well, you on top controlling his orgasm will give him lots of confidence - the trick is to mix it up between fast and hard / slow and gentle, it takes a bit of practice but it's well worth the effort, especially if you train him to come when you do. If I want my hubby to hurry up then I just ask him to turn me over and give it to me hard - it's a surefire way of getting him off and great for the old g-spot to boot. You have to be proactive! BTW, 5 minutes is perfectly average, most men would climax in that time with just hard and fast penetration, it's all a matter of controlling the pace.