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To Be Very Angry The Courier Just Smacked My Bum

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bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:33:16

this just happened 10 minutes ago ...i has hoovering and i looked up and noticed the courier van outside my house as i am expecting a parcel i went to the door and apologised right this guy is really lecherous and has openly stared at my boobs before he told me i would get"8 of the slipper" for causing him trouble as he had just left the parcel at the back door must have seen me actually as that was where i was hoovering anyway as i leaned in to sign my name he gave me a very small slap on the bottom and said ill just give you one (slap im assuming) i laughed nervously but the minute i closed the door i ran upstairs and told my 18 year old son i acyually feel wuite upset old perv how dare he touch me AIBU

justaboutautumn Wed 23-Sep-09 17:34:27

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5uper5tar Wed 23-Sep-09 17:34:31

No of course not, report him immediately

cocolepew Wed 23-Sep-09 17:34:57

Hope it wasn't my DH.

Should have punched him.

Phone his main office and complain.

sarah293 Wed 23-Sep-09 17:37:26

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Morloth Wed 23-Sep-09 17:39:31

God I would have decked him. You need to complain about this right now. That is so not acceptable!

MrsVik Wed 23-Sep-09 17:39:50

Yuk. Complain.

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:40:15

its his own courier company and he seemsto be the only one around i asked my dh last night if he would answer the door as i saw him coming last night with a parcel but he wouldnt and old lech was ok last night but ive got my jammy trousers on tonight dont know if that made any difference

Mmmmcoffee Wed 23-Sep-09 17:41:49

Don't know about ringing the office, I'd ring the police. That is clearly a violation, whether the police would consider it sexual harassment or not I don't know, but they'd have to open a case and the company wouldn't be too happy with that courier.

carocaro Wed 23-Sep-09 17:41:55

Ugg what a pervert. That's not on.

Do not answer the door again.

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:42:11

i just peeped round the door but then of course had to come out further to sign

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:43:38

i know its not that big a deal but i actually feel quite tearful thiking about it

FabBakerGirlIsBack Wed 23-Sep-09 17:44:29

Does your Dh know what he is like? If so, disgraceful if he doesn't sort it out.

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:46:42

i tolf him about the boob thing but as i say he wouldnt answer the door for me last night and i knew another parcel was due but didnt think it would come tosay r would never have put on my jammies oh i wish i had not seem him now i am NEVER answering the door to him again

FabBakerGirlIsBack Wed 23-Sep-09 17:48:11

Is this for real and how many parcels to you get?

GirlsAreLOud Wed 23-Sep-09 17:49:18

YANBU, I got patted on the arse by a (sorry this probably very unPC) but basically a drunk, dirty tramp once. I was just standing outside the train station chatting to my male friend and he did that and walked off laughing.

The obscenities that followed him were not pretty blush

Ivykaty44 Wed 23-Sep-09 17:49:21

Change couriers - if the parcels are coming from a particular place tell them you don't want them using this courier again as he touched you inappropriatly.

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:50:29

of course its for real i had ordered parcels from Marisota and they came yesterday it was cord jackets and then i had ordered another one as i receive dan email with 20% off and knew i was going to have to return one he is also the man who delivers Boden stuff so i do get stuff from time to time

FabBakerGirlIsBack Wed 23-Sep-09 17:53:26

So if your husband knows about this man staring at your breasts what has he said about him smacking you on the bottom and saying he would give you one?

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:54:49

mu dh is at gold at the moment and doesnt know i told my son about it and he is very angry

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 17:55:07

sorry golf

pjmama Wed 23-Sep-09 17:57:12

If someone did this in an office or any other workplace it would be classed as sexual harrassment and they'd be disciplined accordingly (hopefully sacked). Contact his employers and make a complaint straight away.

Elk Wed 23-Sep-09 17:59:43

If he is an independent courier type person then you can complain to the companies that use him. I did this a while ago as the guy delivering stuff from Next and other places was refusing to give return slips. After that they kept an eye on all my deliveries and he didn't deliver to me again.

bodeniites Wed 23-Sep-09 18:00:49

thanks Elk that is really helpful that is what ill do

NormaStanleyFletchachacha Wed 23-Sep-09 18:01:11

Contact Boden and the other people whose parcels he is delivering and tell them about his behaviour.

Really - he freaked you out. What if he behaves this way with anyone vulnerable?

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