I feel like IABU, but here goes -
I am going to oxford this weekend to visit my best friend. DS (7 months) is staying at home with DH. Last night DH informed me that on friday night they would be staying at MILs. I would rather that they were at home to keep DS in exactly the same routine etc while I am away, as he is just starting to get to that clingy stage. Plus I have other reasons -
- The travel cot mattress at MILs is rock hard. I have had to take DS in with me when staying there before as he's woken up.
- MIL is quite overbearing and she will see this as her perfect opportunity to take over for a day. The first squeak DS makes she will be in the room going 'I'll take him' and telling DH to have a long lie. Then she doesn't seem to understand that babies get bored sometimes.
Anyway, AIBU to want them to stay at home while I am away?? I don't feel like I can actually tell DH he can't go or anything like that, but I have already stated that I'd rather they didn't go and stay there overnight....