DH has for years been telling me that he feels that the long holiday which he has to take at Christmas is wasted because all we do is sit around, watch TV, eat, or at the most, visit relatives. He would like us to go somewhere sunny. I refuse point blank to go away over Christmas day because (i) it wouldn't feel right to me (ii) my parents would be very sad as Ds is their only grandchild, my brother who has no children lives a few hours away and doesn't always come Christmas day and (iii) DH's father is alone.
However, I do understand the point he is making about feeling he is wasting holiday. He gets a much more limited holiday allowance than I do (I work school hours) and has an enforced 10 day break at Christmas. So I said to him I'd consider going 27/28 December for a week.
My problem is that although I really love my holidays, I do not like flying. Before we had DS we always went places like Italy on the coach. I will fly now because I see it is unreasonable not to, but I have a limit of about 2-3 hours in the plane (Rome, Dubrovnik, Malaga etc) DH thinks that it is just the taking off which is a problem for me and once I'm in the air I should be OK but being trapped in the confines of the plane all that way up in the air makes me feel freaky. Already I have to take diazepam/wine to enable me to cope, and I'm sure that at that time of the year the weather will make the journey more uncomfortable and the places DH is suggesting we go to (Canary Islands somewhere) are at 4.5 hour flight.
So, should I refuse to go (yet again), suggest we go to Malaga where the weather should be OK-ish but not as good as the Canaries, but the flight is about 2.5 hours, or hope for the best and go? DH keeps telling me I'll love it when I get there and I know he's right, as I always do.
I've been considering trying to get some sort of hypnosis but I don't really know where to start.
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applepudding · 21/09/2009 12:12
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