This morning DS wakes up at 6.20am (usual waking time: 7am). I roll out of bed, having had crap night's sleep - preg hormones or something have killed my sleep these days, grr. I go to DS and shut own bedroom door so DH can sleep.
20 mins later DH gets up and after telling him how crap my night was (he had a crap night too) he offers to look after DS so I can get extra sleep. We agree that he will wake me at 7.45 so I can leave at 8.30 to take DS to nursery.
7.45 - DH wakes me. I shower, etc.
8.25 - I go downstairs for quick breakfast, DH goes upstairs to start work. This is what I find:
- DH has given DS breakfast. That's all. DS is still unwashed and in his pyjamas.
- Dirty breakfast things, crumbs, food spills and play things are all over the dining table. Fyi I work from home, and the dining table is my work space.
- Every kitchen surface is completely covered with the dirty dishes that were in the sink overnight - DH has half-started the washing-up, and left the entire kitchen in a tip so that there's not an inch of space for me to make my breakfast. Has also left bowl of rinsing water on a stool by the garden door. We have had countless conversations/ arguments during which I have told him that leaving the kitchen in this state is bloody inconsiderate and a huge inconvenience to me. He still does it.
AIBU to expect DH to have cleared up the kitchen before scarpering upstairs, and also to have spent a little more time getting DS dressed and ready for nursery and a little less time playing trains and drawing pictures?
I will talk with him again about this but I just wanted to let off steam first.