have a very dear friend who has recently split from her ex-p.they have one dd and also share a mortgage.
freind is a nurse , her ex has his own business
Friend caught him cheating when she phoned him whilst on a business trip ,and OW answered the phone in his hotel room at 3am.
He is now not paying maintenence reguarly ,and has lied to CSA about his earnings...(complicated stuff - he disolved one of his companys and hid evidence, but stupidly forgot that friend is a 50% shareholder in company and documents were sent to her by mistake.)
Friend has been stuggeling (spell) to feed and cloth their daughter , because she is on a low wage and has to find half the morgage each month (very expensive house that he insisted they buy), plus find money for repairsto heating system and leaky roof that needed repaired (house is to be sold)
Ex-p refused to pay maintenence for the wee girl, was the month of her birthday and her mum had to borrow money to feed her , never mind buy her a small gift.
twat of an ex-p bought her a jucey coture tracksuit (pink velour with glitter , and gave her that for her birthday .... nice thing is he also included the receit . FECKING THING WAS NEARLY £300!. He also paid for dd to have day at recording studio with 8 friends and a limo there and back.
i just cant get my head around how this man could possibly think its ok to leave his ex struggeling to feed his daughter, in a freezing house (she cant afford to heat it)...and spend so much on gifts that she doesnt really need or want?
the tracksuit alone cost at least twice as much a friend gets in maintenence. surely a decent man would make sure his dd is warm and fed at least?.
My poor friend is in tears about this, she's so worried about her dd's health, and often goes without eating herself and lies to her dd saying she's eaten at work.
I WANT TO SLAP HIM ..... so aibu?
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drlove8 · 20/09/2009 11:10
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