In brief.
DS1 is having a tough time atm with anger management, anger overload issues, been to the docs getting reffered etc.
Dh is at home unwell, but not sofa bound unwell but ill none the less. I have today started to come down with it as well but again ill but not so bad.
School run time and its chucking it down so I suggest to dh that I leave ds3 at home whilst I go get ds1 (ds2 at nannys)
This is met with an absolute no as dh is a too ill and ds3 doesnt like to be left without me (he is 10 months and fiarly boob depentdent but this wasnt at feed time)
So I go get ds1 who this morning had had a major meltdown, on the way home I decided to park up on the road to chat with him about his behaviour and so on, it got heated (he had been trully awful this am and needs to realise the effect his behaviour has on others) He said he didnt want to be part of our family anymore and so I said right off you go then and to my utter astonishment he got out of the car and stood on the side refusing to get in (ds1 is 7)
I called dh and told him what had happened and where we were (3 mins max from our house) as I was on the phone to him ds1 ran off I said "f**k hes run off" and hung up. I was torn between leaving ds3 in car to chase after ds1 in the end I decided to nip home, drop ds3 off with dh and go back to get ds1. which I did. dh tho was utterly shocked that ds1 wasnt with me and when I challenged him about being no help he got typically sarccy and walked off claiming that "I thought you had it in hand"
I think he should have been round the corner like a shot to help byut there you are
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iMum · 15/09/2009 19:17
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