to not go to the wedding?

[Disenchanted3]

My FILs wedding.
I just don't want to.

We have 3 kids under 5. I've had to ask mymum to have them all as its an 'overnight at hotel thing, but shes ill, shes going through alot, Ive just lost my Uncle, my personal problems are at an all time high, we have no money for it. I cant get a new outfit, Im overweight from pregnancy still and don't want to 'dress up' its not posh not to dress up, everyone will be drunk, I don't drink, my anxiety will be at an alarming level, I won't know anyone except FIL, his fiancee and DH, DD is only 9 months old and freaks if I leave the room nevermind leaving her over night and finally they didn't come to our wedding.

I just really don't want to.

[QueenofAllWildThings]

no, yanbu - don't go if it will stress you out - you have plenty of reasons not to. Could your dh go and say you're unwell or something?

[diddl]

Send your hubby alone?

[Disenchanted3]

I thik I will, hes best man.