Hi
4 weeks ago I had a suprise birth. By this I mean I had no idea I was pregnant. I had nine normal regular periods, only gained a small amount of weight, was never sick etc etc. Anyway, I had no idea untill I went to hospital I found out I was in labour! I gave birth to a beautiful and completely healthy baby girl. Other than being very shocked, me, my partner of four years and both our families are over the moon. We all love her so much and would not change anything for the world. We live a stones throw from my parents, im 22 and my DB is 25. We have had so much help and support and as my boyfriend owns his company in a partnership with somebody else, he has been able to work from home, which has been fab, although between 9 and 5 he is "at work".
Despite all this I am having some feelings that I just wanted to see if are normal? I love my baby but sometimes I feel relieved if my mum comes over and looks after her for an hour..... Or like tonight I asked if my DP wanted to give her her night time feed and I was hoping he would say yes? Is this odd? I dont feel depressed and 99% i am really happy. I just feel guilty that im glad sometimes to not be "holding the baby" for a while.
Any help would be appreciated, I just want to know weather im alone or not?? x
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againandagain · 11/09/2009 22:57
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