A friend asked me to feed her cats for a fortnight in August while she was on hols. She doesn't live far away, I like cats, no problem. When I went round to collect the key, it became apparent she was under the impression I would be there first thing in the morning, and last thing at night. I didn't say "yes, that's fine" or "no, sorry, that's too much, I'll go in once a day". But when people have fed my cats, I've only ever expected once a day.
Anyway, some days I went twice, mostly I went once. The cats are on the dried Iams anyway, so it wasn't like the food was going manky. I washed the bowls daily, sorted litter tray, put bins out, took bins in again, etc. For 2 weeks. I did register that the friend's parents were clearly around - post picked up some days before I got there, leftover chicken etc in the cats' bowls.
I went on hols the day friend came back so I just put keys through the door on the last day. So that would have been around 20th August. Since then - nothing. No text saying thanks, no phone call, nothing. I've texted her re something else but no response.
All I can conclude is that the parents sussed I wasn't there twice a day and she's hacked off about it. I can't think of a single other explanation. So which of us is being the most unreasonable? Or AIBU for assuming she'd have been in contact by now, given that we usually see each other quite often?
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Hassled · 08/09/2009 09:28
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