I know I am but need to be told in no uncertain terms so I can stop mulling this over! We have a nanny share with another family who are great save that the dad can be a bit competitive at times. There have been a few occasions where he has been a bit odd (taking things from my DS, 17 months, to give to his son etc) which I let go but there was an incident last weekend when we were out in the park which I think is pretty unfair. We had decided to grab coffee so the dad and I went into order - I said I would get DS a milkshake and he said, why don't he and his son share it. So I said fine. The lady behind the counter made one huge milkshake and gave it to us in a big plastic cup with a lid on. I then asked if we could have a second cup and straw so she poured the remaining bit of milkshake from the blender (about 2 inches) into a second smaller cup and put it all on a tray. I tried to pour some of the milkshake from the big cup into the smaller one but it threatened to make a big mess and there was a queue behind us so I left it. The dad then decides to take the tray out whilst I pay the bill (which at £15.50) wasn't cheap. As I stood there, I thought, I guarantee he will give his son the huge milkshake and my son will get the 2 inch dregs. Took ages to pay but finally got my change, went out and, as I thought, the dad had sat himself next to DS in his buggy and was holding the straw to his mouth so there was no option for me to swap them or to pour more into DS's cup to even things out. Also really strange that this dad would chose to give my son his drink - why not his own son? Just find it really rude given that I paid over £3 for a milkshake and DS barely had any. Just wouldn't occur to me to do something like that - I would be thinking, lets split equally or if you paid then I'm happy for your son to have the milkshake. So silly I know but a few other similar things have happened and this was just the final straw.
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Gangle · 07/09/2009 16:29
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