quick background: she got married last Sept. Wanted everything to be princess-like, ended up costing me, my parents and everyone involved a hell of a lot of money which we couldn't afford, but her special day and all that. So, it then turns out she was having an affair, marriage over within 4 months.
Moves in with affair-man! Family distraught, my DC's upset as her H was their godfather, close to them etc.
Last time she cheated on her H and he threw her out, I took her in, paid for everything for her (even though she's a headteacher and earns a helluva lot more than me!), sorted her debts etc etc. When I needed help...nothing...not even a phone call!!
When she was upset about her marriage being over, i took her for a weekend to health spa, gave her lots of advice and was generally a shoulder to lean on.
Now, I had a new baby earlier this year. She has seen her about 4 times. She has just had 7 weeks off work and hasn't bothered seeing us once. She knows I am struggling with 3 kids and my job but hasn't once offered to help me, only lives 3 miles away and has sod all else to do.
All she ever calls for is to gloat over new car, new house, something good happening, never calls to see if DC's are okay or what they've been doing or if I need anything.
Parents are all for her new man, even though he cheated and lied etc to get with her. They really need to think back a year to all the hell she put us through. She never should have got married. Dad gave all his savings to the wedding, mum put all her time and energy. For nothing. the affair had been going on two years.
Sorry to go on but I have just had a phone call telling me what a lovely time they have all had (her, her P, his parents, my parents), and I want to shout 'what about us? aren't we part of your family anymore?'. I had to ask her where she was living a few weeks ago as I hadn't a clue!
I really don't know why she has cut us out and I am really really upset
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slowlygoingcrazy · 01/09/2009 15:17
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