Ok let me give you some background ! I have been with DH for almost 7 years, we have 2 ds (5) and (2). I got pregnant very quickly into the relationship, we have our ups and downs as everybody but we are working our way to make things work ! At the beginning of the relationship with Dh, I have met Dh's friends and their wives and we never really hit it off (apart from one which I love, she is my closest friend !)..
I'm really different from them, I'm from another country (different culture), I have no career but I have a good job which brings good money at home, my sense of humour can be describe as dark but still I'm very sensitive of other's people feelings and I car in general..I have tried a lot with them, inviting them around, calling tem to congratulate them when I hear about pregnancy...etc..(I used to but dont do it anymore)
I'm sorry for the rambling, my problem is that we are planned to go for a week end (3 days) with all of them (10 couples)..Its not the first time we go together, about 3 times but everytime I'm never confortable it's always awkward, I have nothing in common with them and whatever efforts I make, it doesnt work, I'm feeling really alone there and end up very depressed but DH doesnt understand..
I'm a cm so my days off are rare, didnt have an holiday because we couldnt afford it but would it be unreasonnable for me to stay at home while dh takes the ds there ? He doesnt want too, he says he wants to show our family unit..but my happiness should matter to him ? no ?
He never takes me anywhere but he had the 250 pounds for this week end even if he knows how I feel about it.
I'm sorry about the rambling.. I'm a regular but I have name change.
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to not want to spend some precious days off with these people ? I can take it if you think I'm unreasonnable !
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confidentbutnotthatmuch · 31/08/2009 13:55
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