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AIBU?

Well am i? DH certainly thinks so, but then I think he's a rude bad mannered oaf...

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moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 21:57

Its not a particularly meaningful thing, but I cooked chicken this evening, and as he was serving himself, he took a bit, started to eat it, and then spat it out literally in front of me. Apparently it was "too tough", so he couldn't possibly eat it.

I was really pissed off with this, because it was a small bit of chicken (as I write this, I am recognising that it is all a bit pathetic) and he could have just eaten it, and then said something like, thanks but..

Instead he spits it out. And then, when I say that I find that really rude, and if the DCs did it, I would tell them off.

He just doesn't get that I find this rude? He thinks that I should understand that he shouldn't have to eat it because he didn't like it.

Well, am i? gggrrrrr

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mamas12 · 27/08/2009 21:59

He is rude. Yanbu.
There are politer ways to tell you your cooking is crap.

hatesponge · 27/08/2009 22:00

YANBU

I'd be furious if anyone spat my food out - I wouldn't let my DC do it either so I certainly wouldn't be happy if an adult did!

LightningBolt · 27/08/2009 22:00

No,he is behaving like a five year old.You have gone to the trouble and cooked him a decent meal.

My response is ususally "well cook you own bloody tea,then" if dp does anything similar.

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:02

Ladies, thank you. We have just had another "discussion" and he still doesn't get it.

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Paolosgirl · 27/08/2009 22:02

YANBU - he's a grown man, and spits out a bit of chicken because it's too tough? Sheesh - tell him to grow up and swallow.

Of course, hopefully you'll now tenderise all meat before you serve it, you slattern

curiositykilled · 27/08/2009 22:03

YANBU - God, that's so rude! Would he have done it at your mother's house? If not then he knows it was rude and is just being an oaf

Dominique07 · 27/08/2009 22:03

Yes. YANBU. Can you 'school' him to be a bit more polite?

CarGirl · 27/08/2009 22:03

you need to explain to him about using a napkin & being discreet!

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:04

Then I can sell my story to Take a Break "How my marinade saved my marriage.."

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Mumcentreplus · 27/08/2009 22:04

Rude Arse! n he is behaving like an ARSE!

SorryDoIKnowYou · 27/08/2009 22:05

How tough can a bit of chicken be? It is unlikely to ever need spitting out.

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:06

I should add that it was, in actual fact, delish..

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FabBakerGirlIsBack · 27/08/2009 22:06

Don't cook for him tomorrow.

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:07

LOL fabbaker girl.

I shan't.

Arse.

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Lizzylou · 27/08/2009 22:09

YANBU, tomorrow night pass him the takeaway menu and his credit card

He'd have been wearing chicken in my house, I'm afraid

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:10

I heart mumsnet.

I knew you'd all think I wasn't

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HecatesTwopenceworth · 27/08/2009 22:12

What, he just spat it onto the table or into his hand or onto the floor or something?

That's more than rude, that's bloody disgusting!

If one of my children did that they'd be sent to bed, I tell you that for nothing!

If my husband did it, I'd think he'd lost his bloody marbles! What a ridiculous way for an adult to behave.

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 27/08/2009 22:13

Has he always been a delicate little flower?

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:15

It is ridiculous actually isn't it?

He spat it into his hand. And just now, when he asked me if I was still in a huff, he said that, we've been married long enough for me not to expect him to have to eat something he doesn't like?

Just in case you had to re-read that, that was indeed something my DH said, not 4yo DS..

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FabBakerGirlIsBack · 27/08/2009 22:17

He really is a stupid little chicken.

HecatesTwopenceworth · 27/08/2009 22:18

Well, you know the answer to that, don't you?

he cooks for his stupid, childish, petulant, rude and ungrateful bloody self in future.

Tell him that from me

I do hope you read the silly bugger this thread btw!

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:19

I am going to print off this thread and give it to him tomorrow with the takeaway menu.

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Lizzylou · 27/08/2009 22:19

Moodlum, seriously, tomorrow night give him either a recipe book or a takeaway menu and tell him to sort himelf out.

Dick.

moodlumthehoodlum · 27/08/2009 22:21

Lizzy - I will. Don't worry. I will.

I mean really..

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Mumcentreplus · 27/08/2009 22:22

I actually told my DH what he did ...this was the actual face>>...know where your bread is buttered (or chicken cooked )

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