I suspect I am but just wanted to have a moan as I know dh wont listen to me. So you can all tell me IABU but I just need to vent.
I'll need to keep it short because I dont want to identify anyone
ds starts school next week so finished with CM, who was supposed to have new baby next May and we had discussed this at length and she was happy to do it.
I had a certain condition that she did not take on a paticular child (which was also on the agenda) and she said she didnt want said child and had already told mother she wasnt minding that child.
CM tells me tody that she will not be having new baby, but other new baby she had said she wasnt having IYKWIM.
She said its because she knows this family wuill work the same hours whatever happens, and that mine might change or that I may not go back full time.
She was upset telling me, and didnt have the energy to be in least pissed off, but I am now, and a little upset that she didnt say months ago when we discussed it.
More than anything (sadly) is that I think Im pissed off because she's chosen this family (who she has moaned about at length to me) over me
AIBU and am I sounding whingy enough
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To feel a bit pissed off with chilminder??
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mosschops30 · 26/08/2009 17:28
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