Background - I have 2 younger sisters, who both still live near my parents; I live 300 or so miles away, and am expecting my first child (first grandchild for my parents too).
Younger sister 1 was in an abusive relationship a few years ago, with a man nobody in the family was particularly keen on. Things came to a head, she left him (very brave decision on her part, I might add), and she spent 2 years living at home and getting over it. She lost a LOT of confidence, had no self esteem for a long time, and although we tried to help, there wasn't much we could do, so she did end up irritating the whole family. Still, she has now moved out of the parental abode, and has found herself a new man who seems to adore her, is employed, and generally she is 1000x happier than she was this time last year.
Younger sister 2 is back at home after uni, lives in a different country from her man, and cannot find a job.
So in the past couple of days, sister 2 has sent me a few text messages telling me how awful sister 1's new man in, how rude he is, how boring, and she really doesn't like him. I remind her she said the same about my DP (now my fiance), and so am taking what she's saying with a LARGE pinch of salt. She then starts telling me things my dad has been saying about me, how he thinks I'm lazy for not travelling up to visit them (I'm 36+3 weeks pg FFS!), I'm taking them for granted (not sure how), and other stuff. I know dad says these things, he says them to my face quite often, and is generally a bit of a sod.
But sister 2 has told me she's 'just telling you these things out of concern for you arolf'.
Is it unreasonable of me to presume that she is just deeply jealous of sis1 and myself as we are both getting more attention than she is for once?!
(sorry for length, needed a rant after a particularly spite filled message from her just now!)
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arolf · 26/08/2009 09:38
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