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to ask a few of you out there to give me a hug

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Unlikelyamazonian Sun 16-Aug-09 20:53:39

please? Feeling needy and shit

Anonymumandlikeit Sun 16-Aug-09 20:54:45


Arcadie Sun 16-Aug-09 20:55:00

Have a hug. And <squick squick squick pop glug>.... a glass of wine.

StinkyFart Sun 16-Aug-09 20:55:05

What's happened, UA?

Hormonesnomore Sun 16-Aug-09 20:55:36

here's one from me <<<<<<hug>>>>>> we all feel needy at times - and shit happens - frequently. Hope you feel better soon.

Uriel Sun 16-Aug-09 20:55:46

Hugs and a nice cup of tea.

Hormonesnomore Sun 16-Aug-09 20:56:39

sorry - ((((((hug)))))) - last one was a bit spikey!

ninah Sun 16-Aug-09 20:58:10

so what's up?

sunburntats Sun 16-Aug-09 20:58:43

sunburn elbows her way to the front and rugby tackles unlikely to the ground and plants huge kiss and huge hug around her.

there you go. xxxxxx

mummytowillow Sun 16-Aug-09 21:00:45

Big, huge hug and chocolate (if I could send it)! grin

gettingagrip Sun 16-Aug-09 21:02:43

<<<<HUGS and Chateaux-neuf-du-pap >>>>> !

ErikaMaye Sun 16-Aug-09 21:03:23


Feel better soon. x x

Unlikelyamazonian Sun 16-Aug-09 21:05:03

god I love mumsnet. Thanks people. Thanks so much. it helps. Just feeling shit. Holidays ending, had lovely friends to stay and now all coming to an end. Sometimes gets to me being so alone. have added new pic of ds as he is so bloody gorgeous and I am starting to miss him when he's gone to bed.

Also dont know if I can re-heat a chilled home-made burger?

And my council tax benefit has gone up because I earned a whopping 8 thousand pounds last year (st lucia with trimmings here we come. Not) And I need to clean the fish out and mow lawn and put washing out and cut toe-nails,hoover peas up in sitting room, pick up cat and dog poos, get my shit together and generally be more grown up. Except I am old already. sorry.will go away in a minute

BetsyBoop Sun 16-Aug-09 21:05:11

{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}} and a big bar of chocolate, always works for me

GentleOtter Sun 16-Aug-09 21:05:14

(((((HUG)))))) and here is a huge slab of traybake [=]

Unlikelyamazonian Sun 16-Aug-09 21:09:22

thanks. blubbing now. pathetic

ninah Sun 16-Aug-09 21:09:42

are you lone p ua?
cos I am and I'm feeling that way too, post hols, the long evenings return

sunburntats Sun 16-Aug-09 21:13:09

oooh thats allot of poo you gotta clean up, no wonder you are fed up!

Dont do it....go and run a gorgeous bath....soak

open bar of

do jobs tomorow....

Unlikelyamazonian Sun 16-Aug-09 21:13:53

yes ninah. lone p. how you doing? I wish I was a bit stronger. am doing my best. bit of a fuck up now and again but surviving

serendippity Sun 16-Aug-09 21:14:06

{{hugs ua}} It can be lonley in the evnings after cd have gone to bed. You have us lot to come to when you feel down

serendippity Sun 16-Aug-09 21:15:13

Dc not Cd!

ErikaMaye Sun 16-Aug-09 21:17:46

I second sunburntats suggestion - hot bubble bath and a bar of chocolate. And a large glass of wine.

So sorry to hear that things are tough right now. Try not to be so hard on yourself

Have some more hugs. x

sunburntats Sun 16-Aug-09 21:18:06

listen to your autie tat....bath, choc then bed, lovely sleepy sleep.

ninah Sun 16-Aug-09 21:19:05

Same as you really! mostly strong sometimes a bit shit will it never end
money worries, all that
and the bloody lonliness
but hey it's not always this way and won't be
you know that

Unlikelyamazonian Sun 16-Aug-09 21:24:37

Been posting fun stuff on another thread, then it hits you like a bus. Feel shit, the fun goes, realise I have so much to do, H is banging whores, I have 18 years ahead minimum of trying to make ds into a kind, loving man..divorce is happening in a vacuum so will have to pay for it all myself...have no money..have no family...

H's family think I am a mad abusive paramour and haven't spoken to me in the fourteen months since he left. Horrid Mothers-in-law? My 'mother-in-law' is a biscuit-taker.

Why don't they call in SS, given their concerns... surely, if I am an unfit mother, they have a duty of care towards an endangered child? hmm

H accused me of being a mad raging drunk..why isn't he fighting for custody then, concerned about the welfare of his son, instead of banging whores in thailand and trying to get into the pants of his young students? hmm

God, I will get over this eventually. the wobbles get less, honestly.

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