dh is asleep on the sofa hungover(we had a family get together yesterday).dd and ds1 are playing outside,im mning busy,and ds2 has gone to play a march to dh on his drum(i would evil cackle but i wont).normally i might tell ds not to but it is almost 3pm and dh was mean to me last night-so im letting ds2 play very noisily.
That's not evil, your DH is responsible for his actions, he should know not to get this drunk, a 3pm lie in is more then enough. Children are not quiet little creatures, allow him to bang away. (evil cackle)
In our house noone ever gets to stay in bed until the afternoon. 9am is considered a lie in. So no, get all the kids to make a band and play for him. I just don't get why grown men (and women) get so drunk that they're incapacitated the next day.