Oh its so long I won't even go into it in detail.
I am a name change btw as he is nosey.
He lives in USA. lots of family coming over and accommodation plans already agreed, i have spent hours and hours looking for the right places for the family, all close together so we don't have to travel/drive and big enough to have a huge family christmas.
I will have a newborn baby (lets say 4 weeks old, depends on arrival of the little one), so we were going to stay with them all, rather than travelling back and forth back and forth.
Anyway, stupid selfish brother who wants it all his own way, and always scuppers plans, seemingly on purpose to wind everyone up, has now decided he wants to get his own place, in the city we live in. We were going to be sharing a house with him over christmas so its just thrown our plans completely. We are not planning on renting in the town we live in on the basis we cannot find anything for everyone that will suit.
he is acting like a child, and there is not need for it, both DH and I are considering just telling him to come on his own after christmas, as I think his issue is jealousy at other family member coming too, not him as the centre of the family.
Can I just tell him to sod off, or should we just let him call the shots?
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to tell my BIL to sod off at christmas and visit another time?
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ItsaJollyHolidayforMary · 09/08/2009 10:26
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