I really can't be arsed. The number one reason(s) being the expense and the inconvenience of changing everything.
So far I have changed my name on facebook (apparently not good enough although more people will see that than my passport or bank account) and my name on our joint savings account.
We have separate accounts, no kids (yet) and the bills are in both our names.
My OH says it's 'really important' to him but when I ask why he can't explain and then says let's not talk about it because it annoys him so much and he feels like I am winding him up. I on the other hand can give lots of reasons why I can't be arsed. I am happy when my passport runs out in 8 years to re-apply using my married name but it just makes no sense to me to change everything all in one go. People in work know me by my usual name etc.
I think he thinks I am being unreasonable - am I?
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not changing my name now I am married?
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beanieb · 03/08/2009 20:51
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