I live in a rural area, where most of my friends are SAHM's, and don't have the use of a car or can't drive. Consequently, I am constantly being asked if I will drive my friends to the supermarket, so they can fill my car up with a weekly shop, drive them to the town so they can pay their bills, take them to the dr's, playgroups etc etc.
I work from home, and being 'too busy' doesn't go down well.
I have 2DC, and I am getting fed up of being asked to transport my friends everywhere, because I have a car, and they do not.
Their DC leave sticky marks in my car, smear their muddy shoes up the back of my seats, leave half chewed sweets in the back, and my friends get rather irate and call me selfish when I say no, can't do it. They feel so entitled, that saying no doesn't go down well at all. How dare I ?
Grrrrr!!!
It is costing me a fortune too. While I sympathise with anyone who has to rely on public transport (which is ok where we are), I do not wish to spend my life ferrying other people around.
Does this mean I should get rid of my car, to solve the problem?
Or is there an easier/nice way to say no, to people who take the piss are constantly asking, simply because I do have a car?
BTW, I am happy to help in an emergency, but I don't rely on my friends every week, and don't expect them to rely on me as a form of unpaid taxi.
Has anyone else had this problem? And how did you deal with it?
Helpppppppppppppp!!!
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to not want to be used as some sort of taxi driver?
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twigsblankets · 01/08/2009 12:23
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